Here we go folks.
I am one step closer to being an empty nester.
After having my mini's graduation party this weekend (which was a HUGE success) I am realizing quickly how much I relied on her to be around.
Some say that this will give me time to get to know "me". Others say I will get to focus on my health and wellness. Then the third group says this will allow me to spread my wings and allow the freedom to date and travel.
To all of them I simply say "f**k off" because until you are in my shoes you will not understand the pain of realizing that person you have had in your home almost everyday for 18+ years will all of the sudden be sleeping somewhere 99% of the time.
I have been madly in love with being a mom since 1997. In between I have tried to find "hobbies" like scrapbooking, essential oil crafts, cooking, photography and many more.
Guess what – not successful.
Maybe it's my ADD. Maybe I just get bored easily. Either way I am finding myself cleaning out Rubbermaid tubs of crap that has gone by the wayside.
It has hit me recently, I just like taking care of people. That's all.
I keep busy with work, so my days plus some nights and weekends are full not to mention the animal brigade I have with me. Yet those 3-4 hours that I have alone are sometimes a little much to tolerate.
I think I'm starting to talk to myself people.
I ask the readers, what is it I should do? How have you dealt with being single and an empty nester?
Tonight I am starting with this:
What other thoughts do you have?