Well folks, my self esteem has tanked. I have been a paying member of both Zoosk and EHarmony and apparently it must be either my photos or how I am wording my answers. Right?
Maybe people aren’t doing online dating? Maybe they don’t get online dating?
Lately I have been the target of one and done dates, men that hat and don’t follow up or men that are so much older than me it is disgusting to think about.
Let’s take for example a man I have been “chatting” with for over 3+ weeks. This happened:
Then I really started to question myself and my profiles and thought who better to analyze my dating profile than the internet.
Now I am asking the interwebs to take a look. Be honest. What should I do?
Here is my EHarmony profile. Be honest – I can’t grow without help. They say honesty is the best policy.
At the end of the day my profile gets skipped over, men don’t respond to my messages. Instead I get winks and lewd remarks that amount to feeling all kinds of strange things.
Are there any good men out there? Ones that open doors, care and are kind. Maybe a man that talks about more than sex, can discuss careers, current events, sports and other topics.
I wonder if I am meant to be single. Maybe I need to go back to just taking care of me.
At the end of the day, it is my heart and my soul that keep getting rejected and little by little they are wearing down.
Share your thoughts – they are always welcome and received with an open mind.
Peace and Love!