It seems so long ago. Hard for me to recall a lot of details. I can tell you what I was wearing and what a room looked like, or what I ate, but to describe activities and connect them to specific dates, not likely.
It is funny how a string of memories connects itself 7 years later and triggers all kinds of feelings.
7 years ago I tried the whole rekindling an old romance by visiting Pennsylvania. Spent a long weekend there touring the city and enjoying time with someone that, to this day, I really care about.
Romance, in particular long distance romance, wasn’t what I needed at the time. It was apparent, neither did he.
We were in two different worlds and my life was just starting to get put back together and his career was taking an upward swing.
Was I crazy about him, yes. I still am today. He is one of the most talented people I know. One of those individuals who I will always have a connection with, in one way or another.
Funny, 7 years later we text nearly everyday. I look forward to bantering about sports, work and the occasional personal items.
While the whole rekindling romance thing regretfully didn’t work out (both then and now) a short while later I was introduced to someone, slightly more local.
We did the whole talking/texting thing until all hours of the night and eventually went out. Then he actually asked me to be his girlfriend.
So, I was. For a short time.
Funny thing, he is still a part of my life. He is smart and funny, sarcastic as ever. We have dinner when we are in town together and text occasionally. There hasn’t been any inclination of rekindling, but it’s nice to know he is still a friend.
I share this today because people have a way of coming in and out of our lives at strange times, when we least expect it.
Does this mean anything?
I’m not a scientist, so for me it means I am lucky. Very lucky to have people in my life I can pick up where we left off and still be social with years later.
Not everyone is someone you will talk to every day for the rest of your life, but appreciate and celebrate the small moments of having good people in your life.
Now, if you think I have an amazing memory, you are wrong. These events could have happened 10 years ago, but thanks to Facebook I can tell you when things happened in my life.
Aren’t you excited?